A field guide to the parts that protect you
What is the shape of your clench?
Explore the 52 protective patterns – all guarding a tender place within. Meet them, get to know them and ask what they might need from you.
The Flawless StagPerfectionism
The BastionHyper-Independence
The ThornwardenCynicism
The HighcrownSuperiority (intellectual + spiritual)
The TempestEmotional Volatility
The DoorcloserPreemptive Rejection
The DeflectorAppreciation Blindness
The GripkeeperControl (of others + of the body)
The FloodgateCompulsive Authenticity
The ShrikeThe Inner Critic
The VaultkeeperPower-Hoarding
The ScorekeeperWorth-by-Metric
The WildhornCounter-Dependence / Reflexive Rebellion
The WhirrwingChronic Busyness
The EverclimbAchievement Addiction
The FarscoutFuture-Focused Anxiety
The EmberkiteChaos Addiction
The MagpieCompulsive Distraction
The CartographerOver-Intellectualization
The PeakhunterCatharsis Chasing
The FuseheartAdrenaline Dependence
The DimwickSelf-Medication / Anesthetic Numbing
The DeferralJoy-Must-Be-Earned
The RenouncerMoney-Rejection
The ManywingedOptionality / Commitment-Avoidance
The DriftlingEscapism / Fantasy-Retreat
The FrostveilEmotional Numbing
The ForeboderJoy Dampening
The FoglingIntellectual Helplessness
The AilingChronic Illness Focus
The MartyrshellChronic Victimhood
The FadedDissociation
The StoneboundProcrastination / Paralysis
The SnaredShame-Bonded Habit
The UnseenHiding / Fear of Being Seen
The HesitantDoubt-as-Protection
The WiltedResignation
The HermitshellWithdrawal / Isolation
The ColdwallStonewalling / Shutdown in Conflict
The ManyhandsPeople-Pleasing
The PenitentChronic Apologizing
The OverpourCompulsive Giving
The MirrorkinIdentity Shifting
The LifelineChronic Rescuing / Fixing
The StillwaterConflict Avoidance
The DutyboundObligation-as-Love-Proxy
The ClingvineAnxious Clinging / Merger
The SidewinderCovert / Passive Aggression
The LustrelingThe Charmer
The SoaklingEmotional Sponge / Hyper-Attunement
The HushlingSelf-Silencing
The FaithfulLoyalty-Bound / Can't-Leave